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finally i hve time to write as i bz looking after my bb. i had a bad exprience wif CL. my relative recomended as she use her b4. so i ok wif tat as is recomended. BUT!!! think few yrs later things r different. my relatives use her 3yr ago n last yr nov. when my relatives give birth, i went to her hse to c the CL. n talk abt how to go abt it. my grandma call her at sept time, she say $1900. her name is hongjie frm malaysia. then when i n my grandma go to my relative's bb full mth, she say $2000 n say when i give birth on the 1st dae, call her. b4hand, i told her my edd is dec 25th. but i had a induce on 21st n give birth on dec 21st emer c-section. then the 2nd dae, she call my relative tat how cum i didnt call her. my grandma say 3rd dae call her as i hve c-section so cant so early go hm de, n she can take care of me til 25th BUt! the hongjie say she the train full le, cant com out, onli on the 29th then can cum out, she ask is it alrite. i say ok as my grandma can look after bb & me.
on 29th, hongjie was late. suppose to reach afternoon 2sumthing, hear my relative. tot sumthing happen to her when i watch the clock was 5sumthing. my relative help me call her n her son say the train was delayed( dun no truth anot). she reach my hse 7pm. she say dun count tat dae as she was late, she say start on 30th..she "look" ok when she reach immdiately help my grandma who cooking halfway. the next day, she bath for bb, fetch bb, cook food for me n my dad, n watch bb's clothes. she hang out bb colthes out, get strain on her back. my dad ask her want to c sinseh, she say dun nd. she say is old ailment , got it frm my relative's car(give birth early nov) while carrying bb get hurt. i give her master bedroom as she say i 1st time mum so she mus slp wif bb. my dad dun slp masterbedroom. she say the bed soft. the bed nobody slp there as my mum dun stay there le. she say jus nd a hard board to lay sitting position can le, she dun wan lie down. my grandma scare she cant squat dwon to bath bb so volunter to bath my bb. i n my dad ask her to rest awhile n my dad say he can mop the floor n wash plate. at nite, she watch tv, ask my grandma buy ingredient tat i can not eat de(cool food). she say her backache, so my grandma help out abit. my dad told me, in the day he saw hongjie feeding bb while her eyes closing, oh my god! then at nite i wake up to c my bb n her feeding bb. she didnt even stir properly the formula. i daytime pump put breastfeed, nite time formula. then 3dae, my grandms cook sumithing to relive her back. my grandma cook while she watching tv n sitting down. my dad bring her to sinseh. as she get injure at my dad hse, my dad feel bad. my dad came back told me tat the sinseh say is not she kana strain on her back while hanging bb colthes. is old injury n she nvr take care of her health n got wind. the sinseh veri gd, alot of ppl go c, the shop at west coast. i saw she bring alot of pills n medicine. after c sinseh, she feel better. she bauy zi dong, at nite she feed bb le ask me or dad to carry bb to the room n handover to her, she wil put bb to slp. she didnt wash bb clothes. mine jus 2daes then change. my relatives or frez cum, she sit at the sofa in the living room or inside the bedroom. the 4th dae, my dad lend his matress to her slp on the masterbedroom matress, as she complain soft low bed. she fussy lah, check my dad's matress got 1 area soft as slp tat part too long. she change the position of the matress alot of times, n lastly dun slp let bb slp tat matress. on the 4th dae, she cant tahan le, as she didnt slp on the bedroom using lying position, she go to the living room's sofa n slp. then wat abt my bb??? she say she nd to slp wif the bb...but she go to the sofa. ARGH!!! i ven got ask her on the 3rd dae, wan to slp on my single bed..she say wat abt the bb. nvm, she slp on sofa, bb cry she didnt go n attend her. i was 1st to reach bb. all the room's door was open, nvr close. summore, when bb cry for milk during nite time, she go toilet veri long then make milk. she shld attend bb. if cant ,can tell me, i can make milk. i n my dad veri easy goin person. i told my dad n my relative(recomend the CL to me) tat, CL jus can take care of bb n me can le, doesnt nd to cook gd n nice food n can rest for 1-2hrs. at nite, told her go n rest as she nd to look after bb after midnite, but she jus ignore me n watch tv. lastly, i cant TAHAN her anymore when the 5th dae, she let my bb cry wif tears out, n didnt attend him. she is the last 1 to wake up. i noe my bb cry le, jus wan to noe she got go attend him. lastly, i told my dad, she nd to go, got her or no her is the same as my grandma cook n wash bb clothe n bath bb, n midnite me n dad wake up to c bb got taken care anot. on tat 7th dae morning, my dad bring her to sinseh again as she complain back ache. then go hm, cant wrk anymore.ok, since she say out then gd. my dad told me tat after sinseh he told her to go hm , but b4 my dad say, she say 1st. tat dae, my grandma not at my hse, frm the 1st dae the CL came, my grandma got cum over n help. she told me this 1week, dun nd count $$ ,jus give her red packet as she say she didnt do much, n along is my grandma do alot. i qing cai, i pack 5dae wrk $$ in the red packet. as i say tat it! b4 she go back, she give $50 to my sister( who was blind) as she say my dad veri kind, bring her to c sinseh. wun hire her again. my grandma came back the next day, say me why give her the 5 daes $$, jus give abit $ inside de red packet. i say qing cai, we do sui xui dun wan let ppl say we do bad thing to her n she cant anyhow say bad thing, as we r gd to her. my relative paisey as she recomended the CL. THINK THE CL CANT DO ANYMORE AS SHE GETTING OLDER plus taking care bb at nite wan , veri xiong de..nd alot time to rest n not jus wan $$$ to get business every mth. can not every mth, do confinement de. SO PLS MUMMY TO BE, DUN HIRE THIS CL, hongjie !!!
