i have a cl too... but i took care of bb 100% bathe feed change burp pacify..everything. my cl like dun really noe how to take care of bb.. the other day i allowed her to bathe her n when i touched the water it was cold!!!!! my gosh!! my bb only 7 days old. den never clean her umblical cord, dun put yuyi oil for her. then sometimes see the diaper stain never bother change say still will poo some more... just leave it. then wipe my bb gal wipe from behind to front????!! really wanna faint.. after feeding sometimes i ask her burp for me... she like rub her back 10 secs my bb never burp then she put her down... thn my bb after few ms vomit out.
At night sleep same room with me n bb.... my bb wailing away... she's snoring away. Faint!! Cook also like cook normal food for me. Then cook go buy drumstick say cook for my hubby.. i was like no need cos my hubby dun like ginger.. then she said .. then dun put ginger.. i was like but u r suppose to cook for me and i need to eat ginger right?? Funny she always wanna buy food and cook fr my hubby n not me. then she got the nerves tell me u eat the vinegar pork from afternoon lar.
She sleeps from night to 7am undisturbed no need to wake up help... then bb clothes she hand wash few days thn put in the washing machine. her clothes also she put in with our clothes.. still got to hang lar keep n fold for her.
I've gt to soak my bb clohtes at night, wash them in morning. clean the house while bb sleeping.. mop the floor etc. while she sometimes naps.. sometimes when all done bb nap she say wanna go out for walk.. then i cannot rest.. got to jaga baby.
I really dunno what kind of confinement i'm having. Never boil anything for me to bathe in also... food also lousy! SIgh!!!
So if u r experienced in handling baby.. save the money!! i feel like i'm throwing money in the sea right now!
plus she can watch dvd for like 3-4hours a day till late. She did that for first week until the drama completed and we stopped allowing her to watch.