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Nanny's Negligence, Disregard, and Unsafe Baby Practices Spark Concern

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Unsolicited Advice
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Bad Cooking
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Messy Habits
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Ignoring Instructions
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Overfeeding Baby
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Neglecting Baby
Safety Negligence
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Disrespectful
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Phone Use
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Poor Hygiene
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Sleep on Duty
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Lack of Initiative
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Cultural Clash
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Undermining Breastfeeding
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Disclaimer

Summary of the Complaint

A new parent details a highly unsatisfactory experience with a confinement nanny, citing pervasive laziness, unhygienic practices, and dangerous methods in baby care. The complaint highlights the nanny's disregard for instructions, preference for outdated methods, and aggressive pushing of personal opinions, causing significant concern and stress for the parents.

Mummy's Key Complaints

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Lazy and Unresponsive: Wakes up late, fails to prepare breakfast, and is un-proactive in caring for the mother.

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Poor Hygiene & Habits: Gives the mother overnight tea, doesn't use a sterilizer, and neglects washing bottles with soap.

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Disregards Instructions: Uses excessive salt and soya sauce despite being told not to, and refuses to boil extra herbal tea.

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Undermines Breastfeeding: Prefers formula over breast milk, making misleading claims about breast milk.

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Inappropriate Baby Care: Feeds baby excessively when crying due to colic, uses rubber bands to tie baby's mittens and booties (causing bruising), and puts baby on a rocker to sleep instead of a cot.

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Resistant to Learning: Unwilling to learn new methods like using a milk bottle warmer or anti-colic bottles.

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Damages Property: Causes power trips and scratches non-stick pans with a fork.

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Excessive Personal Time: Plays games on her mobile phone and sleeps frequently, even during duty hours, leaving the baby unattended.

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Unprofessional Conduct: Insists on outdated methods, constantly boasts about her experience, and forces her cooking preferences.

Unprofessionalism

Full Complaint Details

Cons:

1. wake up late if mummy wake up late.

2. let mummy drink overnight red date longan tea.

3. didn't prepare breakfast for mummy.

4. if daddy around, she won't be pro-active and auto to take care of mummy need like food.

5. if mummy is hungry during teabreak time, she won't prepare food if she saw mummy is finding food to eat.

6. if daddy is around, she saw daddy help to serve mummy in anyway, subsequently she will not help to serve mummy for that task.

7. she prefer her own ways of doing things and taking care of baby.

8. she prefer to use old style white square muslim towel instead of any other brand. She will not swaddle baby if is not her preferred swaddle.

9. she don't use sterilizer and ask daddy to keep.

10. she wasn't willing to learn how to use milk bottle warmer but after insisting then she start to learn.

11. despite daddy and mummy tell her not to use salt and soya sauce for cooking, she finished a bottle of sea salt and 1.5 of soya sauce in a span of 2 weeks.

12. she isn't pro bf-ing, she prefer fm over bm as she claim bm will be gone once baby pee or poo. And bm take longer time to heat up once taken out from fridge.

13. she will keep feeding baby whenever baby cry. Despite daddy tell her baby cry due to colic.

14. she will always say she have taken care of so many grandchildren and no problems at all.

15. she refuse to boil extra red date longan tea for mummy when mummy explained that mummy drink alot of water. She advise mummy to drink warm water instead.

16. she told mummy not necessary to boil herbal soup daily despite daddy have purchased the 28days herbal soup package.

17. she took mummy kindness for granted. Mummy allow her to nap 2-3hrs as worried she might be tired due to night duty. She sleep as and when she likes. If daddy around, she will just go to the room and sleep without informing anyone leaving baby alone in the living room.

18. she claim that Tommy Tuppee milk bottle teat is too short, baby got problem sucking milk. Ask daddy to change the milk bottle but both daddy and mummy got no issue feeding baby.

19. she claim that baby tummy got alot of wind but when daddy wanna ask her use anti-colic milk bottle, Dr Brown bottle, she refuse to use and claim that the bottle is complicated to wash.

20. She doesn't wash the milk bottle and pump with soap until daddy have to remind her.

21. She cause the house to power trip as she didn't wipe away the water from the the overflow kettle base.

22. She play games on her mobile on and off most of the time cause she too relax and free.

23. Two weeks into the confinement, whenever she shower baby or change baby diaper, baby still cry murder non stop.

24. She didn't pat baby chest with water before putting baby into bathtub for shower. (could be one of the reason why baby cry non stop during shower)

25. Daddy still have to prepare breakfast for the nanny if he's preparing for mummy.

26. Still have to ask mummy what mummy wants her to cook instead of her thinking what to cook for the mummy.

27. She didnt boil the herbal soup according to the day/date.

28. She sleep more then work.

29. She put baby on rocker to sleep at night instead of baby cot.

30. She uses fork to cook non stick pan and pot, causes the pan and pot to scratch.

31. She use rubber band to tie on baby hands and feets without parents approval when mittens and booties are loose. Baby both hands and legs blue black. (no evidence, but will anyone use rubber band to tie on a newborn baby hands and legs to secure the mittens and booties?)

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