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Confinement Nanny's Unsafe Practices and Rude Demeanor Endanger Twins

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Disrespectful
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Personal Demands
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Phone Use
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Poor Hygiene
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Ignoring Instructions
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Overfeeding Baby
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Neglecting Baby
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Unsolicited Advice
Safety Negligence
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Summary of the Complaint

A distressed parent warns against a freelance confinement nanny, Wang X. H. / Ong L. H., who allegedly engaged in dangerous practices like extremely tight swaddling and hands-free overfeeding of newborns, risking choking and SIDS. The complaint details the nanny's unhygienic methods, constant phone use, rudeness, and aggressive demands, leading to her dismissal after just two weeks and a warning to other parents.

Mummy's Key Complaints

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Swaddled babies extremely tightly, leaving marks and showing zero neck support.

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Placed tightly swaddled babies to sleep on their stomachs, risking SIDS.

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Force-fed newborns (less than a week old) 90ml to 150ml of milk using a hands-free method with bottles supported by pillows.

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Intentionally overfed babies so they would sleep longer, allowing her more leisure time.

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Requested and used many herbs/alcohol for confinement meals, which resulted in the babies being diagnosed with Breast Milk Jaundice.

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Used three phones with non-stop voice messaging, even past midnight, in the same room as the sleeping babies.

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Bathed babies by carrying them face down and pouring cups of water on their backs, causing them to cry excessively during every bath.

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Demanded that babies be given pacifiers so they would not cry.

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Complained of headaches and tiredness, stating she "doesn't want to die in my place," despite having ample rest.

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Complained that no one helped her with the twins.

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Threatened to leave if pacifiers were not offered to the babies.

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Was consistently rude and displayed a "24/7 black face" to the family.

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Exhibited a general lack of care for the mother.

Under-qualification
Unprofessionalism

Full Complaint Details

Freelance Confinement Nanny 王x桦 / 王x华 / Ong Lxxx Hxx (Hearsay she is nanny from hell)

HP : 83xxxxx4

Decided to step up to post reviews on different platforms despite the hassle because I do not allow any more babies to suffer under the hands of this nanny.

She swaddle babies really tightly till it leave marks on the body, zero support to the neck while swaddling, places babies to sleep on their stomach while being tightly swaddled. (Risk of SIDS)

She fed 90ml to 150ml of BM/FM to newborn LESS THAN A WEEK OLD, hands-free feeding method where bottles were supported by pillows only.

Babies were unable to refuse milk in this compromising position even when they had enough. (Risk of choking & overfeeding)

All these in hope that they will sleep as long as possible and not disrupt her leisure time.

She requested to buy many kinds of herbs/alcohol to cook for my confinement meals on the day she arrived.

I thought whatever an experienced nanny prepped for you will only do you good for confinement, not.

My babies were diagnosed with Breast Milk Jaundice due to the heavy usage of herbs/alcohol I consumed.

She uses 3 phones with non-stop voice messaging, while babies were asleep in the same room with her. (Even past midnight)

Offered her to use the living room instead because I do not want my babies’ sleep to be disrupted, she acknowledged but same thing happened again the next day and again and again.

She bathes them out of the tub, carried them on her hand while facing down and pouring cups of water on their backs.

Babies cried murder during EVERY BATH despite she claiming that this method is the most difficult to perform but of the best interest to the babies.

She demand that babies should be given pacifiers so that they will not cry and be cranky, and can sleep soundly at night. (she meant herself I guess)

She claimed that she had a bad headache, very tired and doesn’t want to die in my place. (Be informed that she have more than enough rest because my babies are always asleep? She need not do house chores except for prep and cook)

She complaint that nobody help her to take care of the twins. (joke)

She said she will leave if we don’t offer pacifiers to the babies.

No words can describe how rude she was to all of us even to me! (24/7 black face). During the entire period, I don’t even feel taken care of. And still have to endure her bad attitude.

We endured her poor attitude for the reason that she is here to take good care of my babies.

We endured her poor attitude because she boasted she have 20 years of excellent nanny experience, specializing in twins.

I let her go immediately, after 2 weeks.

As of today, I’ve stumbled upon the other 2 families who had engaged her after me, coincidentally both also did not complete the entire confinement cycle with her.

Be warned to all mummies all there.

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