Almost there . . .
×
Site language modal icon
EN

πŸ“’ Every story has two sides. Don't skip the Nanny's Response.

Confinement Nanny's Laziness, Poor Hygiene, and Unsafe Baby Practices

12
👶
Neglecting Baby
📱
Phone Use
💤
Sleep on Duty
🎲
Personal Activities
🎭
Cultural Insensitivity
🫘
Bad Cooking
🤦
Messy Habits
Safety Negligence
🚫
Ignoring Instructions
🤥
Dishonesty
🥣
Unapproved Diet
😡
Disrespectful
Freelance, 2014
Singapore Singapore
Source: mummysg
Baby Suffers, Needs Antibiotics Due to Terrible Confinement Nanny Experience
👶
😢
Freelance, 2025
Singapore Singapore
Source: facebook
Mummy Complains Nanny's Dishonesty, Poor Care, and Wasteful Habits
👦
🤫
🚰
😡
+2
Freelance, 2025
Singapore Singapore
Source: singaporemotherhood
Mummy Complains Nanny's Dishonesty and Neglect Led to Early Departure
👶
🧼
🤥
+2
Freelance, 2025
Singapore Singapore
Source: singaporemotherhood
Alert: Confinement Nanny's Unhygienic Habits, Negligence, and Deposit Dispute
🤥
💰
👶
📱
+7
Freelance, 2024
Singapore Singapore
Source: facebook
Confinement Nanny Lim Ah Moy Fired for Financial Demands, Poor Quality, and Unprofessionalism
😢
💸
🤥
+3
Freelance, 2024
Singapore Singapore
Source: mummysg
Warning About Freelance Nanny "小燕子" for Sickness, Unprofessionalism, and Poor Attitude
😡
📱
🧼
🧔
+6
Freelance, 2024
Singapore Singapore
Source: singaporemotherhood
Warning Issued: Nanny Overfed Baby, Exhibited Negligence, and Abandoned Service
👶
💤
😢
🚫
+7
Freelance, 2024
Singapore Singapore
Source: singaporemotherhood
Comprehensive Warning Against Nanny Tan Suan Ai (Aiko/Ai Jie) Citing Dishonesty, Waste, Neglect, and Unprofessional Conduct
🎲
🧼
💰
💥
+20
Freelance, 2024
Singapore Singapore
Source: singaporemotherhood
First-Time Mom Warns Against Nanny Miki Lee: Disrespectful, Rough, and Destructive
👦
💥
📱
🤱
+4
Freelance, 2024
Singapore Singapore
Source: singaporemotherhood
Disappointing Confinement Nanny Departs Early After Property Damage and Negative Behavior
🤥
🫘
🚮
🎭
+8
Freelance, 2024
Singapore Singapore
Source: singaporemotherhood
Disclaimer

Summary of the Complaint

A new parent endured a "nightmare" with confinement nanny Ah San (Lim Pei Shan), who was allegedly lazy, boastful, and prioritized her own convenience. The complaint highlights the nanny's disregard for dietary instructions, unhygienic practices, and dangerous feeding methods, leading to immense distress for the family.

Mummy's Key Complaints

bullet

Demanded new kitchenware for her convenience after a few days.

bullet

Cooked salty food with excessive dark soy sauce, disregarding post-C-section dietary needs.

bullet

Disregarded requests to reduce ginger and alcohol in food for breastfeeding.

bullet

Insisted on TCM pills that were not breastfeeding-safe.

bullet

Was too lazy to grocery shop, telling the husband to buy vegetables.

bullet

Provided cold herbal bath water, expecting the mother to add hot water herself.

bullet

Watched TV and used her phone excessively, even while feeding the baby.

bullet

Showed no patience in feeding, stopping when the baby paused and continuing phone calls.

bullet

Gave the baby formula at night despite instructions for expressed breast milk, claiming it helped the baby sleep better.

bullet

Failed to burp the baby well, then put the baby in a rocker to sleep so she could sleep better.

bullet

Caught feeding the baby with a bottle propped on a pillow in a rocker while she slept.

bullet

Requested time off for personal errands like collecting deposits and shopping.

bullet

Did not clean toilets or floors.

bullet

Used the dryer daily despite being asked to hang dry clothes.

bullet

Played Buddhist songs for the crying baby, suggesting "dirty things" instead of recognizing colic.

Unprofessionalism

Full Complaint Details

Would like to share my bad experience with this Msia CL who claimed to be very experienced..

Her name is Ah San (Lim Pei Shan) and even have FB account. Age 42.

Basically she's lazy. Braggart and horrible. Here is my nightmare..

First few days appear to be fine but demanded us to change our wok, buy slow cooker and various household items for her convenience.

The food she cooks quite salty..loves to add dark soy sauce according to her taste.

when I asked her whether I can eat food with dark soy sauce since I'm c sect, she replied, only ur hubby will see your wound so need to heal nicely for what,,?.

Since I'm bf, told her to reduce ginger and alcohol but she's not happy

insisted I eat the TCM pills she bought to reduce wind but I checked with EYS it's not bf safe!

Lazy to go grocery shopping even though the market is 1 bus stop away.. When I asked her why no veg for dinner she just simply reply no more veg, ask ur husband to buy on his way home..

Boiled herbal bath at her convenience and gave me cold pail of the water to bath, asked me to add hot water on my own!

Watch TV all day long and use her phone entire day even when feeding baby..

No patience in feeding baby, when baby stopped drinking, she stopped feeding and talked on phone.

Despite me telling her to feed ebm at night, she gave baby fm and insisted my baby sleeps better with fm at night!

Doesn't burp the baby well so baby couldn't sleep well and she put the baby in rocker to sleep at night so she can sleep better herself!

caught her lazy act, put milk bottle on a pillow and fed baby in rocker while she continue sleeping!

Asked time off to collect deposit from other mothers and to go shopping!

did not help clean the toilets and the floor!

despite asking her to hang dry the clothes, she still use the dryer everyday!

And the most ridiculous thing she did was to let my baby hear Buddhist song when he's crying! She tells me baby kept crying at certain time at night..might have "dirty things" possess.. Doesn't she know what is colic is she's so experience as she said?

No response received yet
Are you the Nanny involved in this case?
Your personal information will not be shared
Be the first to comment
Do you have a Complaint?
Submit your complaint for public viewing.