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Confinement Nanny's Gross Negligence, Poor Hygiene, and Bullying Behavior

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Poor Hygiene
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Deceptive Practices
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Bad Cooking
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Personal Demands
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Unsolicited Advice
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Disrespectful
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Ignoring Instructions
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Messy Habits
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Dishonesty
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Extra Fees
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Summary of the Complaint

A new mother recounts a "bad experience" with confinement nanny Li Hua, citing severe hygiene breaches, destructive actions, bullying of the household helper, and wasteful practices. The complaint highlights the nanny's dishonesty, self-serving actions, and constant demands for ang paos, leading the mother to vow against hiring a confinement lady again.

Mummy's Key Complaints

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Washed baby's clothes with adult clothes and underwear, despite specific instructions not to.

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Stained baby's new rompers red due to color run from her clothes, then hid the stained clothes and lied about the baby outgrowing them.

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Used baby's bib as her face towel and lied when questioned.

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Provided unhelpful and dishonest responses when the baby threw up.

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Bullied the household helper, asking for help at night then accusing her of lying, and making the helper clean up her kitchen messes.

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Left the kitchen in a messy, "Tze Char stall" like state.

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Was extremely wasteful with water and electricity and used excessive ingredients for cooking, claiming her soup was "very nice."

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"Volunteered" to shave the baby's head for the full month, explicitly "only taking an ang pow" for the job.

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Repeatedly reminded the client to give her ang paos upon arrival and departure.

Under-qualification
Unprofessionalism

Full Complaint Details

Hi Mummies...

Sharing review of my confinement lady - LI HUA

Hygiene level - C (at best)Singapore HP: 82439296

Malaysia HP: 0127070671

I had a bad experience and hated confinement, largely due to this middle age woman in the house. I will not get any CL in the future.

What she did (may be trivial if you don't mind):

-- Washes my clothes and PANTIES, HER clothes and PANTIES together with baby's clothes! (I specifically told her not to mix baby's clothes.)

-- Color from her clothes ran and stained baby's clothes red. All his new rompers are stained red! Proceed to hide stained clothes in the cupboard and say "Baby grows so fast, he outgrew the tiny rompers already." I only found out after she left. Grrr...

-- Took baby's bib and used as her face towel. When I asked her why is the bib in the toilet, she said "Dunno leh. Let baby use lor."

-- Baby threw up all over his cot. I asked her what happened, she said "Dunno leh. Dunno why like that."

-- Bully my helper - asked my helper to wake up in the middle of the night to help her. And then accused my helper of telling lies because she "had 30 years of experience" and never asked for any help.

-- Bully my helper - made her do all the kitchen cleaning after she made a mess of the kitchen. I had mistaken my kitchen for a Tze Char stall in that one month.

-- Extremely wasteful - uses water and electricity at full blast. She always claims her soup is very nice - of course la, if you put in 1kg of meat and half a pot of ingredients and boil forever. Who needs a confinement lady?

-- She also "volunteered" to shave my baby's head for the full month and "only takes an ang pow" for this job.

Oh yes, she reminded me 1000 times to give her ang pow when she arrives and leaves.

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