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Confinement Nanny's Anti-Breastfeeding Stance and Disregard for Baby Care

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Unapproved Diet
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Parenting Style Conflict
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Personal Demands
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Disrespectful
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Sleep on Duty
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Ignoring Instructions
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Undermining Breastfeeding
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Neglecting Baby
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Misrepresentation
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Summary of the Complaint

A new mother recounts a frustrating experience with confinement nanny Yan Jie, who was allegedly overly opinionated, anti-breastfeeding, and prioritized her own sleep over the baby's well-being. The complaint highlights the nanny's constant accusations, rough handling of the baby, and insistence on formula feeding, leading to the baby's nipple confusion and the mother's depression.

Mummy's Key Complaints

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Anti-breastfeeding stance: Accused the mother of not having enough milk, insisted on formula feeding for longer sleep, and discouraged breastfeeding for "rest."

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Caused nipple confusion in the baby, leading to the baby refusing the breast.

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Accused parents and others of disturbing the baby's sleep during the day.

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Prioritized her own sleep: Fed the baby full with formula to ensure longer sleep for herself at night.

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Insisted on her own "logics" and methods, and demanded strict adherence to her schedule.

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Made the baby's head hit the changing table by putting him down too hard.

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Expressed frustration when disturbed for frequent night changes due to breast milk-fed baby's frequent stools, suggesting mixing formula.

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Demanded husband buy formula immediately on the first night, despite it being late.

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Used aircon in her room where the baby slept, potentially for her comfort.

Unprofessionalism

Full Complaint Details

Yan jie was My cl this yr.. basically she was recommended by My mil's frd.. was said to b experienced but.. her logics was too irritating.. accusing me n hubby almost everything.. n everyone that carries bb.. making him difficult to fall Zzz at night..or feed him full full w fm to make him last thru the night obviously So she can ZZZ..also ask me to rest well dont bf..cos confinement is to rest..in the end bb nipple confusion n dont wanna My (.)(.) Anymore..

Pros that she cooks well n is clean but have her own logics n wants us to follow n meals cannot b delayed cos will ruin her time to clean up bathe n Zzz..she Zzz at abt 9 n once aft shower automatically goes to on the aircon in her rm.. we allowed her it's OK cos bb slps w her..always accuses My hubby that he talks to him n play w him until My bb doesn't wanna Zzz at night.. difficult to fall aslp..

Also when he's on bm.. he poos frequently n when we bring him in to change when she's already aslp say abt 10-11pm..she gets frustrated n says shd mix bm n fm if nt poo will nt b So watery.. what nonsense ! Also she gets frustrated to disturb her Zzz n when she's putting him down at the changing mat she put too hard n hit his hard on the table! 28Days passes n we cant Wait to send her off n take cr of My bb myself! She's fr mysia n abt 50+yrs old.. v anti bf.. always cms n say nt enough supply bb cry cos nt eating enough.. I was depressed cos I felt that I was a bad mummy w nt enough milk for My boy..her first day..she already told My hubby y didn't standby fm in case I don't have milk..ask him go buy immediately.. it was already 8+pm at night..

Hence beware of this CL.. if u all v pro bf.. must insist n nt get bullied by them!

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